It's all about passion
"Contrast in Delivery" is all about being passionate in presentations. As a speaker, you aren't expected to be a great actor, but you are expected to be "openly in love with whatever you're in love with." So if you don't love what you do, it's hard to give a good presentation. In fact, Kapterev says, you may need to start looking for a job that you will actually love. Because you can't give a good presentation about something you care nothing about.The joy of confrontation
To keep things interesting, Kapterev says he likes conflict (which is, in itself, a confrontational statement). He likes it because it keeps things interesting. He wants people to disagree with him so that he can have a dialogue rather than just a boring monologue.One of the ways he confronts people is by using humor. Not telling jokes, but stories about others, not the audience. Or to exaggerate claims so that people don't get offended. Instead, they may laugh at themselves but they do recognize that their previous behavior was wrong. So they may change.
But confrontation and offense aren't necessarily bad, either. Kapterev insists that a good presentation will upset a few people. That's because the ideas are new. Or the speaker is passionate and uses strong language. Not necessarily swearing, mind you, but showing passion about the subject. Like the example from Robert Lustig about the dangers of sugar, where Lustig calls sugar and corn syrup poison.
That's strong language. And it offends people.
Learning from great presenters
I always tell my students that if they want to become better presenters, they need to watch and pay attention to other presenters, both good and bad. Emulate the good; try not to become the bad.Kapterev agrees. He says that you can only become yourself, the presenter that is uniquely you, by knowing others. You need to create your own personal style, yes, but you do that by learning from others. In fact, he recommends copying other presenters. The whole presentation. Try to become like your favorite presenter by becoming your favorite presenter and actually giving that presentation.
Copying someone else allows you to learn how to be passionate because it can actually teach you compassion. You get inside the other person's patterns, and you learn to act. Which can allow you to become a different, more passionate person onstage.
The rest of the chapter is devoted to the mechanics of copying another presenter:
- choosing a person to copy
- finding videos
- writing the transcript
- recording yourself
But it's mostly pretty simple.
Learn how to present by copying the best presenter you know. Actually try to give their presentation.